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Elisa

I think women sometimes convince themselves that sex is "so much more important" to guys than it is to us, and that their egos are so very fragile that we couldn't possibly wound them deeply by suggesting they could improve their techniques, behavior, whatever.

I bet most men don't overtly tell us it's "our job"...because they don't have to, we're telling ourselves!!

Rachel Daisy

I think it's a matter of low self-esteem. I did have a boyfriend once who managed to pull that same kind of stuff on me. Although he and I never went all the way to intercourse, we would fool around a lot. After a while, he would say stuff like, "I do stuff to you a lot, why don't you do stuff to me?" And then he'd bring up one occasion where it may have seemed that he didn't get enough pleasure. Before I knew it, he wasn't doing anything for me and I was always doing stuff to him because I felt obligated. It's not a matter of "girls against boys," it's a matter of finding a partner who is 100% with you in life, love, and sex. And as far as I'm concerned, if one falls short because he doesn't think he needs to pay attention to me, it's time to rethink the relationship.

nikky

sounds like how me and my bf are, its all about him and never about me, sometimes we dont have sex for like mths becuz he dont want too

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